The Bartender

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I used to be a player. I dated a lot of girls, had sex with them then dumped them in a week or two. I didn’t believe in neither true love nor destiny. It didn’t make sense to me as I grew up in a broken family. My father divorced my mother and got remarried with to another woman. However, my father and his second wife had been sexually involved with each other since my father was still married to my mother. Basically, he cheated on my mother and chose his mistress over us. He left my mom and I when I was only 3 years old and never contacted us ever since. I didn’t know where he was and had no interest in knowing. Two years ago, I was in the same situation as my parents. I had a girlfriend but I fell in love with another woman. Nonetheless, the other woman I fantasized about was married.


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I was happy with my girlfriend, Gina. For the first time in my life, my views on relationships had changed. Gina showed me what real love was and gave me hope of having a successful marriage one day. She was very nice and caring so I had no reason to cheat on her. She was very far from the other girls I had dated before. She graduated in a nursing school but for some reason she didn’t work as a nurse. She never got the chance to practice it but worked for a call center company instead. Although, she worked as a manager. I wanted her to never stop chasing her dreams to become a doctor one day but she was discouraged and gave it up. She tried applying in different hospitals as a nurse but never got employed. As a partner, all I wanted was the best for my girl. I remained positive and kept pushing her to try it again.

I worked as a bartender in a club. It was where I met a bunch of girls. Most of them were heart broken, separated and party girls. I had several relationships with divorced women. I dated party girls too but ended them quickly. And with most heartbroken girls I met I just had a one night stand and never contacted them again. I was up to date with my monthly check-ups and always had a condom in my pocket. People would say: “Before you attack her, wrap your whacker”.  I didn’t wear condoms when having intercourse with Gina because I knew she was disease free. I met her in a club. She was accompanying her friend, Lorie, who was heartbroken and Gina was there to comfort her. I had a one night stand with her friend Lorie but she never mentioned it to Gina. Afterwards it was always an awkward situation whenever the three of us would hang out.


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Gina and I dated for almost five years. We had our ups and downs and temptations were around me at work but I controlled myself around the pretty faces. I stopped messing around with other girls since our first anniversary. I thought Gina was the love of my life but I met another girl at the club. Her name is Rhonda. She was crying when I met her. Rhonda had troubles with her marriage because she thought her husband was falling out of love with her. Her husband didn’t have time for her anymore as he was busy with his job. He traveled abroad twice a month and only stayed home for three days in between his trips. Rhonda became suspicious with her husband as she witnessed him in a restaurant with another woman one night. Since then, they never had a romantic moment again and their marriage was falling apart. They used to be a sweet couple and their love to one another was unbreakable. They didn’t have a kid and never planned on having one. They were fine having each other as sidekicks.

As soon as I met Rhonda, I had already adored her. Her beauty overtook me that night. We talked for a bit as I bought her a drink and told her I would pay for her bill. I sat beside her and listened to her anecdotes. I wanted to help her feel better. Since then, we were always in contact with each other and went out for a dinner a couple times. She always came to the club to see me and stayed there until my shift was over. I thought it was only a friendship that we had but it was not. I hated to admit it in myself that I was already falling in love with her and being unfaithful to my girlfriend but it felt amazing whenever I was with Rhonda. Gina never discovered it and I felt bad. I couldn’t let go of Gina either while I was with Rhonda. Moreover, Rhonda knew about my relationship with Gina and she respected it. I didn’t come home to my girlfriend one time and spent the night with Rhonda. We had an amazing night and we enjoyed it. We didn’t have regrets and wanted to do it again. It was not just an ordinary night we had, there was love and joy intertwined with it. We had sex numerous times but what we were doing was totally wrong. Rhonda was married and I had a girlfriend.


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I was confused with my feelings at that moment. I didn’t know which one of them I should really be with. Considering the situation in which Rhonda was already married, I’d be in favor of Gina but Rhonda was something to me. Gina was my girlfriend and I loved her but being with Rhonda made me felt alive. I didn’t want to lose any of them but I would have to decide or I would lose them both. One day, I got Rhonda pregnant. We were excited about it. She told me, if she would be asked to choose whether to or not have a kid, she would rather have a kid because a home needs a child to complete it. I didn’t think of having protected sex with her because I knew she only had sex with me when we were together. Not even with her husband but she was worried her husband would find out. I attempted several times to talk to Gina about the situation but every time I tried to, she would cut me off. Rhonda never told to me that she would leave her husband for me so the scenario didn’t even come into play.

I was gone for a week to think about the situation thoroughly. I went to an isolated island and spent the week there alone. I had no communications to Rhonda or Gina because there was no signal in the area which was favorable to me. After being away for a week, I didn’t realize that Rhonda would go to my girlfriend’s house and look for me. This how the truth came out. Rhonda confessed to Gina about our affair and that she was pregnant. Gina couldn’t believe it happened and asked Rhonda to leave. I tried to explain it to Gina as soon as I got back home but she didn’t listen to me, packed my things and kicked me out of the house. It broke my heart and I already knew which one I wanted to be with. I told Gina that I chose to be with her over Rhonda even if Rhonda was pregnant but it was ineffective. I couldn’t let Rhonda’s pregnancy dictate what I desired. From then, I cut off my relationship with Rhonda but told her not to abort the baby. Our only problem was, how to explain it to her husband. Rhonda didn’t call me back or come to see me for a month. So, I called her friend to ask how she was doing. I found out that she was rushed to a hospital after aborting our child in their house alone. Her friend immediately drove to their house as soon as Rhonda called begging to her aid after aborting the fetus.  Rhonda was regretful for what she had done. She told her husband about our affair a month later. Of course, her husband was upset but Rhonda had her reasons. From then, Rhonda never talked to me again and I heard she was still married to her husband.

 


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I tried everything to win Gina back for a year. I sent her flowers at her work every day but she threw them away. I called her phone but she never answered. I waited outside her house every time she got off from work but she just ignored me. I followed her like a stalker but she pretended like she never saw me, and a lot more. After trying so hard, she finally accepted my apology and we started over. It took me some time to rebuild her trust and I know I deserved it. She meant everything to me so I did whatever it took. We’re happily engaged now. I had learned my lessons.

 

“I never realized how much Gina meant to me until I lost her. I needed her more than anything else in this world because I love her.”

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Culture Vs Love

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This story is about Xu and Joe who had been dating for a couple years before their relationship had come to an end because of cultural differences. Joe is a Filipino and Xu is a Chinese girl. Xu’s family never agreed with their relationship because Joe isn’t Chinese and still practiced their tradition where they already chose a Chinese man to marry Xu. It was a devastating moment for both Joe and Xu when she broke up with him and got engaged to a Chinese man.


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In 2000, Xu and Joe were both nursing students at Far Eastern University in Manila, Philippines. They were classmates and became study partners on their 3rd year level. It was where the romance began. On December 20, 2003, Joe admitted his feelings to Xu. He feared of losing her as a friend and would turn him down. Xu didn’t message him or call him in the next five days. Surprisingly, on Christmas day, Xu decided to meet him at the cafe and told him, she felt the same way too. However, Xu couldn’t announce their relationship to her family because they came from different cultures. She knew what was going to happen if she told her family about the relationship. Her parents would only disapprove it. Xu hid it for years from her family until Xu and Joe finished their studies.

On Chinese new year in 2010, Hyun, Xu’s sister, followed Xu as she was rushing to go somewhere. She followed her in a restaurant and felt dismayed as she saw Joe kissing Xu as they met. Hyun was supposed to surprise Xu about her wedding arrangements with another Chinese man that their parents had pre-arranged. Hyun witnessed Joe giving Xu a diamond ring as if he was proposing to Xu. Hyun left with no trace. On Xu’s way home, Hyun cornered her outside their house’s gate. She confessed to her what she saw and explained to her about her wedding arrangements. She was persistent in telling their parents about what Hyun had witnessed but Xu begged her not to. Xu revelead everything about her and Joe’s relationship to Hyun. She told her how happy she was to be with Joe. Fortunately, Hyun condoned her hiding it from their parents. They were sisters and supposed to be a team. Hyun admired her sister for following her heart but was disappointed in her for disobeying their parents.


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Xu thought her parents would finally accept Joe as her future husband after they became doctors. She made an announcement about their engagement to her family. Xu’s dad threw his wine glass and got upset. He spoke in Chinese telling Xu to end their relationship as soon as possible as her wedding to another Chinese man was already arranged. Xu couldn’t believe that her parents still made arrangements with another Chinese man despite the hard work that she applied to earning her degree. Xu believed that if Joe was a doctor, her parents would accept him. Knowing that Joe can bring good income into their family when they got married. They would both have a prosperous living with their professions. Xu’s parents were discontent and ordered Joe to stay away from her. Despite the insults that Joe heard, he didn’t leave but told them about his feelings for their daughter instead. It provoked them and made things worst. Xu’s dad had a heart attack and was rushed to the hospital.

A few days later, Xu’s dad was getting better and he took the opportunity  to have a serious discussion with Xu. He revealed to Xu why she has to marry the Chinese man instead of Joe. It had something to do with their family business and of course, their tradition. The Chinese man is their only chance for the salvation of their livelihood by merging their companies together. On the other hand, Joe isn’t poor. He came from a business oriented family also. They owned a construction company however it wasn’t as profitable as the industry that Xu’s family was into. Sadly, Xu accepted his dad’s proposal. She had to break up with Joe to marry the Chinese man.


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From then on, Xu was never as happy as before. She felt like her life was controlled and never had a choice in her own happiness. She was able to obtain a successful career path in becoming a doctor which was her parent’s choice. She had to do it because so she would be useful for their family owned hospital. This is why she encouraged Joe to become one too. For when they got married, they could both work for the hospital. But things, didn’t go as planned. Destiny contradicted her desires. It was her only desire to be with the person she loved most… and that’s Joe.

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Long Distance Relationship Part 4

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“Hi, I’m Aimee. I’m from Asia and moved to the United States to be with my lover. I met my husband online and now we’re happily married. No kids yet but we’re planning to have one in the future. Here goes our story.”

“You think I wouldn’t recognize my princess? No matter how hard you try to disguise, you will never be a stranger to me. I know you better than anyone else,” Robert said. I was amazed and just looked at him in the eye. My heart was beating loud. I bumped my head thrice on his chest because maybe I was day dreaming. Then I realized, it’s all surreal. I never thought he will come back for me and be this leveled up romantic guy whom I ever dreamt of.


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We headed straight to my apartment and spent a little cheesy time together then went out for dinner. I was surprised he picked which restaurant we’re going to, which I normally do. He planned everything out for that night. We had a nice meal at the Japanese restaurant. Their tatami room was scented with my favorite flower and a bouquet of roses lying on the table. Things were just as romantic as it seemed. I couldn’t stop smiling with tears in my eyes until he showed me the ring and proposed to me. I stopped for a moment and said “yes”. I had a feeling he was up to something and it exactly happened to when I just thought of it. It was the happiest day of my life.

“I will make you my queen and love you till death,” the most common words yet very precious he ever said to me. My loneliness from the days we’re apart suddenly disappeared. I was so eager to kiss him hard and take him to bed. I missed him and wanted to feel him once again. From that day onwards, I’ve never been lonely anymore. I thought of him flying back to the states but it was not as sad as the first time around. It made me stronger and motivated. Because I believed that the next time we’d be together, we will take it either to the church or judge or whoever would marry us.

We spent two weeks together in the beach like a newlyweds. We had so much fun and made new friends with fellow Asian-American couples we met down there. Their stories were not afar from ours that love will bound us together. In the right place at the right time, we will meet again and be happy like we never had. I was thankful and still am to God for bringing Robert into my life. I have been lost for years because of my past relationship but now, God gave me more than what I wished for.


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With Robert’s remaining days in the country, we got to spend it with my family. We made a big announcement regarding our engagement and threw a party with our family, relatives and friends. My parents cried out of happiness and couldn’t believe I’m becoming a wife soon. They joked around about making a baby as soon as possible and leave my kid to them in exchange of me which suddenly made sad thinking that I’m their only child. I hugged them tight and told them not to worry because everything will be fine. Anyway, we had a wonderful night altogether. The party went well and my parents accepted Robert as officially part of the family.

Three days before Robert’s flight, we spent some time at my parents’ farm alone. We both needed fresh air because we knew he will have to go back soon. He promised to be working on my visa as soon as he can so we won’t have to be apart anymore, no more goodbyes. And he is excited to call me wife and wake up in his arms every morning.

Few days later after Robert left, I went back to work and so was he. We started saving the most we can for when we get married. I remained positive throughout the year and it took us several months to get my visa ready. I spent my remaining months in my hometown with my parents until Robert came back to escort me going to the States.

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What’s Your Ideal Wife?

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Johnny and Diana were childhood friends and became teenage lovers in high school. They honestly believe in destiny and if they were to be born again, they will choose to be with each other over and over again. Their love to one another is everlasting.

During their financial crisis, it was Diana who only had a job. She was working two jobs 5 days a week and baby sits over the weekends for 2 years. Johnny had a rough time with his career because he got in trouble. He had a car accident and the cops took his license. He was under medication for his bad insomnia and somehow still caused him trouble. He was charged with DUI. And from then, it was a slow progress for him to get back in his feet. Diana never gave up on him. She was always there whether she was or not needed. She took care of the bills and everything else. She never stopped motivating Johnny however he felt like giving up with life and attempted suicide. It was a hard time for both of them but Diana never quit trying.


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After trying for so long, Johnny finally pulled himself together and started working. He got back on track and Diana was a big help for him. He shed tears and told her how thankful he is to have a great partner like her who never stopped believing in him. The lovers thought it was the end of their problems but after a few months, Johnny changed and drove Diana away. Here’s her letter to Johnny.

June 15, 2016

Johnny,

           If you’re reading this letter, I want you to calm down first. I know we’ve been fighting a lot and I had to move out. It’s not that I don’t love you anymore but I think we needed some space. I don’t know exactly how to start my letter for you but please hear me out.

          I remember the old times. We used to be so happy. We cared too much for each other. We laughed together. I wiped out your tears when you’re in trouble and you always had me at your back when you needed me. I never complained of anything for years. We had a rough time with money matters but I stood beside you until we were able to overcome it. Now, we have our own jobs and making good money. It’s understandable that we get busy at our jobs and it’s frustrating at times but honey, you started taking it out on me. I never talked back at you for months until I got fed up. I didn’t want you to be like this or maybe it’s my fault that I never tried to talk to you about how worse you’re becoming. Maybe I didn’t have time to look out for you anymore. Maybe it’s my fault you changed. You treated me as your queen for 5 years but now, it’s slowly changing. You tell me undesirable words whenever. You always lose your temper. You started calling me names and it hurts so much. I cried every night but I didn’t think of giving up until you told me to just be gone. I know I promised you one thing, to be by your side no matter what. I know you didn’t mean what you’ve said to me in every fights we had. However, if things gone so badly and you won’t cooperate, I will have to let go. Maybe you have already changed your mind and you’re sick of being with me. I hope not but you have to let me know. You have been unapproachable for months. You don’t hear me out anymore. What am I supposed to do? You never hit me but your actions and words were already enough. Johnny, I truly love you and it never changed. All you have to do is to be yourself again. You know you’ve been lost. I stayed strong for you over the years and will still be. I just don’t know how to help you this time if you don’t even let me.

          I missed you Johnny. Please help me find you back. I love you.

                                                Sincerely yours,

                                                                Diana


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They’ve been dating for several years and despite of everything they’ve been through, they were able to sort it out. Johnny resigned from his previous job and now part of the HR Team while Diana is 8th month pregnant and currently on her prenatal leave. She works in a Daycare Center and recently got her Bachelor’s degree. They’re on their late 20’s and now happily engaged. Their wedding will be this year but they haven’t decided the exact date yet. Best wishes to the becoming newlyweds.

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